Wednesday, March 12, 2008

" No choice laa ...."

No choice laa...

I hate that statement. I really do. It is ridiculous to say that we don't have a choice in life. Because I think we do. Always do. Its just whether you want to recognise it or not.

Most people choose to ignore certain obvious choices available because they don't want to take the hard way. The painful way. And usually, the right way.

Its sad to see people I love and care about settling for what's clearly not the best choice for them. And resulting in them not being totally happy. And they will wonder why God punish them by making their life so miserable. Stop blaming God for something that you have done and have control of. God gave us life but it is up to us on how we live it.

I am especially disappointed with this new generation. They do not value the things that they have and always looking for short cuts. And because of that, they are involved in immoral activities. Looking back, I realise what my parents did was for me to be able to think and differentiate right and wrong. I know that sounds simple, but surprisingly, not many practice it.

A classic case where this horrendous sentence is used is in relationships. "I'm sorry but I have to break up with you because my friends don't like you..", " I have no choice but to marry someone that my parents chose for me..", and on and on. Oh dear God! Please grow some spine and stand up for what you want. It sickens me that there are individuals out there that are freaking smart in school, college, career, etc but when it comes to love..... useless.

And to make it worse they will bitch and whine about how shitty their life is and how they are in constant pain. Don't like how you live your life? Do something about it!

Well, this is my take about this very common subject matter. I am sure I'm not alone.


Beth said...

:) couldn't agree more la.